rae
they/them
community
queerplatonic
voice intro
Tune in.
Talk to
your people.
Dating, friends, and open rooms for queer people who'd rather start a conversation than swipe in silence.
how it works
Set your signal,
tune into rooms,
start talking.
step 01
Set your signal
Write your own gender, pronouns, orientation and relationship structure — free text, never a fixed dropdown.
step 02
Tune into rooms
Open lines are live conversations on different frequencies — dating, friends, venting, hype. Drop into any of them.
step 03
Slide into a real one
React to a prompt instead of sending "hey." Every first message lands on something you actually said.
open rooms
The switchboard
This board runs on your device — it's a live demo of the real thing. Cross-city rooms need the full app.
connect → message
No more "hey" into the void.
First messages answer a prompt, so there's always something real to reply to. Voice and video intros are a tap away — and photos only unlock once you both decide.
replying to rae's prompt
"A hill I will die on:"
cilantro is a personality and you cannot change my mind
finally someone with values. soup this weekend?
it's a date — voice note incoming 🎙️
photos unlock when you both say so
safety + privacy
Safe by default,
loud by choice.
Incognito & blur
Browse without showing up. Blur your photos until you choose to reveal, per match.
Block by contacts
Hide from people in your phone's contacts so you never run into your boss or your ex.
Boundary filters
Filter out chasers and anyone outside your stated boundaries before they reach you.
Queer-literate moderation
Reports read by people who get the context — not a generic outsourced queue.